A family that starts calling providers without a written gap ends up asking each company to solve a different problem. One company hears a few hours on weekday mornings. Another hears a full overnight. The phone calls multiply because nobody has said what is missing. The fix is a plain inventory, done once, before any call.

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Step 1: Recognise the signs that a gap exists

You have a real problem to solve if one or more of these is true in your household:

  1. A family member is leaving work or rearranging their own day to be present at a set time.
  2. The same task is being done twice, or not done at all, because two people think the other one is doing it.
  3. Errands, meals, or transport are slipping and nobody can say which day they slipped.
  4. Calls about the parent come in at hours that no one has agreed to cover.
  5. The family is improvising a new arrangement every few days.

If none of these is true, write that down too. Then the calls you make will be about a different question, and you should say so to the provider.

Step 2: Fill in the seven-day grid

Use one row per day. Mark each block of time as covered by a named person, covered by no one, or unclear. Blocks are morning, midday, afternoon, evening, and overnight.

Monday: ______________________ Tuesday: ______________________ Wednesday: ______________________ Thursday: ______________________ Friday: ______________________ Saturday: ______________________ Sunday: ______________________

An unclear block counts as a gap until someone names the person who will cover it and says yes. Do not leave it blank for a provider to guess.

Step 3: List the tasks in the gap

For each uncovered block, write the tasks that happen in it: meals, getting dressed, moving around the house, bathroom trips, appointments, errands, pharmacy pickups, reminders, and phone calls. Mark which tasks need a second person, which need a trip outside the home, and which the parent can still do with a reminder. Keep these notes plain. Your goal is to describe what happens, not to judge it.

Step 4: Decide the first thing to solve

Pick one gap and one task group to solve first. Trying to fill every hour at once is how families end up with the wrong provider for the wrong shift. Write the first gap in one sentence:

The first gap to solve is ______________________ on ______________________ from ______ to ______.

Once that sentence is on paper, you can compare providers against it. The Start Here: Five Steps to Hiring page walks through the same order of work, and the About this desk page explains how these guides are written and reviewed.